What men look for in a relationship

Have you ever wondered to yourself,

“I wonder what men are really looking for in relationships?”

Lets start at the beginning with what men crave in relationships.
What Men Really Want

Sex… end of the story.

No, no, no I am just kidding you (well, they do want that too) but I aim to give you some deeper insight into men than that obvious one.

Lets talk about “The Egomaniac” concept first,

The egomaniac is all about the ego.

These type of men are extremely selfish and shallow. In other words, they are the type of guys that only date women for their looks. Sure, personality may matter down the road but for them, looks are 80% of the equation. The perfect example of men who are egomaniacs is, if you look at pretty much every male on that show, “The Jersey Shore.”

What men want in a relationship is for you to feed their ego to the point where they feel like they are literally the most important person on planet earth. If all men had their way that is exactly what they would want from a relationship.

Let me give you an example.

Lets say that an imaginary couple that I just made up are dating. Lets give them some generic names like Aman and Shruti.

Ok, so Aman and Shruti are dating and Shruti is doing an amazing job of feeding Aman lines like,

“You are the best I ever had.”

“I love you more than life itself.”

I think you get the picture…

Well, the more Aman begins to hear stuff like that the more his ego will be fed and the more confident he will become. The more he will crave that type of admiration from Shruti. Now, lets take a look at the opposite side of the coin.

Lets say that Shruti doesn’t do a good job of giving Aman the admiration he craves. He is going to be thinking,

“Does she even care about me?”

Do you see the difference? If men don’t get the admiration they feel they are entitled to in a relationship they begin to lose interest. This leads us to an interesting question, what is the best way to give them admiration?
How To Properly Give Men The Admiration They Crave

So, now that you know that men basically want you to feed their egos in a relationship you should just go out and do it right?

NAAAAAA…. !

Compliments/ego feedings have a way of getting stale if it happens too often.

The best way I can put it is like this.

The second we stop craving your admiration is the second that we could potentially begin to lose interest. Always leave something for us to crave. 

Advertisements

Beauty Distractions

What’s next… Makeup Artist, designing a gown for 20% who are rich here ? Are you kidding me ?

Lets be honest, Beauty videos always distract me, who don’t wanna look flawless with beautiful skin colors on our face which is mostly eaten by men. (don’t judge, its true)

Fuck Grammar, please don’t get humiliated. Its true, we girls just don’t want to admit. I have more thoughts than just makeup and beauty, If you can’t make it large, then don’t fake yourself.

Seriously, it can only be achieved until and unless your dad has a heavy pocket so you can buy expensive products to paint someones face and give a tag ” It enhance beauty”

okay, It does. I don’t criticize on such matter, but here comes my point why are you getting diverted when you excel in many other stuff, distraction + emotions = failure

but logically u think + wiser you act = success in your hands

You’re a lady who walks in heels in her office not just to pose for some shoots or to colour someones face, but to be a corporate gentlewoman who wears fashion, order employees and kick their asses. THAT’S WHAT YOU WANT TO BE…

BE YOURSELF !

Change is inevitable !!

From last 2-3 years, I have changed my personality, working thoughts and my way of looking to problems..

I believe 

You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible. 

Change the way of thinking..

Take the opportunity today to listen to your inner voice..

Have you ever wondered ‘who’ owns that inner voice? You know the one. The one that says: ‘You know what, I don’t think you can do that.’ or it might be the one that says: ‘Yes, that’s what I should do.’ Either way that’s your inner voice. If you find you’re in disagreement with that inner voice ask yourself – ‘Who is that anyway?

Who is it that you’re arguing with?

It can only be you right? So what part of you is saying something contrary to what YOU are thinking? If it’s being negative then it’s your fear personality. If it’s being positive then it’s your passion personality. Ask yourself who you’d rather listen to – your fear or your passion.

Stop for a moment and listen to your passion personality, if your fear personality raises it’s voice just ask it to wait it’s turn. Listen carefully to what your passion personality is saying. That way lies joy.

Change is inevitable !!

From last 2-3 years, I have changed my personality, working thoughts and my way of looking to problems..

I believe 

You must find the place inside yourself where nothing is impossible. 

Change the way of thinking..

Take the opportunity today to listen to your inner voice..

Have you ever wondered ‘who’ owns that inner voice? You know the one. The one that says: ‘You know what, I don’t think you can do that.’ or it might be the one that says: ‘Yes, that’s what I should do.’ Either way that’s your inner voice. If you find you’re in disagreement with that inner voice ask yourself – ‘Who is that anyway?

Who is it that you’re arguing with?

It can only be you right? So what part of you is saying something contrary to what YOU are thinking? If it’s being negative then it’s your fear personality. If it’s being positive then it’s your passion personality. Ask yourself who you’d rather listen to – your fear or your passion.

Stop for a moment and listen to your passion personality, if your fear personality raises it’s voice just ask it to wait it’s turn. Listen carefully to what your passion personality is saying. That way lies joy.

“Past”, makes a difference ! 

“There is a fine balance between honoring the past and losing yourself in it. For example, you can acknowledge and learn from mistakes you made, and then move on and refocus on the now. It is called forgiving yourself.” 

Past, if interferes your present, can spoil your future. It is impossible to let go of the past without a positive view of the future.
Too often we find ourselves persecuted by our own minds, trapped in a cinema with our painful memories playing on repeat, like a badly written horror story.

Little do we know, that we have the power to get up and walk out at any moment. We do not have to sit there for the third or fourth viewing.

We already lived it once, one review is enough. There’s no reason to keep replaying it over and over in your mind.

So think again.. Are you giving another gun bullet to your past so to kill you one more time ?? 

Shut up and be grateful

Picture : Sunset in Mount Abu, Rajasthan. June , 2015 ( Yes, you‘re right that’s my shadow)

You can always have more, but you could also have less. So be grateful of what you have.

I was very slim years back, then got fit after great workout. I have put on some weight but atleast I have enjoyed plenty of good food and have knowledge to get thin and look great again.

Use it as an opportunity to set goals and improve yourself.

You’ve been blessed. Even if you rarely realize it. All of us here have.

And you’ll keep forgetting this unless you remind yourself. Remind yourself regularly. Choose to be grateful. Remember how it could be worse, it could always be worse.

The human mind naturally overemphasizes the negative. Psychologists have found that the loss of something is two to four times more painful than the joy of gaining the same.

Acquire the skill of gratitude.. BE GRATEFUL !!

 

Her BEaUty

I’m beautiful, you’re beautiful..

Every woman is beautiful…

Her beauty raged with a fire, even the demons wouldn’t dare to touch.. 

What a beautiful language to learn. The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure she carries or the way she combs her hair.

So, WHAT IS BEAUTY ???

Beauty is only skin deep.. La belleza cuesta (Spanish) (it cost to be beautiful)

We all heard it before, is it what society decides ? Of course it is.. 

But it doesn’t have to be.

BEaUty being beautiful has to do with the words : BEing yoU